When I was young, in fourth or fifth grade perhaps, I had a very normal dinner with my family and we had a pretty typical conversation. My dad asked me how my day went and I proceeded to list all my classes, and some of what the lessons were. When I finished my half-hearted spiel my dad told me something that stuck with me in a way that only small lessons from parents or loved ones stick with you. He said "It's all well and good to hear what you've done, but tell me a story." And really from three I've understood at a basic level that the form of a story is what best communicates experiences between people. And that isn't a lesson I've applied to my writing as much as I'd like, but maybe it's time to flex that muscle.
I'd like to point out before I go further that the above story didn't happen in the factual sense. But it follows the basic arc of a story. Exposition, some plot, a climax, and a resolution. But isn't that story effective. Do you not feel like you have a little bit more understanding of the way of the world because of it? Our knowledge of history comes from passages which read as if out of an epic poem. A preacher's sermon is a kind of story, politicians use anecdotes of life experiences all the time to convey their message. I'm reading right now about the history of ancient Rome, and the various events, like Romulus and Remus founding Rome, with Romulus slaying his brother in a fit of rage, or the tale of the Horatii triplets, read like they are part of a screen play. This was the history that was passed down from generation to generation before it was written down. So without further ado, here's a story of today.
Today started like any other. Well not "any" other day. It's hardly common to start your day eating breakfast next to a number of elderly Welshmen, who are part of a singing group, in Parma, Italy. But it was normal enough.
I'm hardly a man who plans for the day ahead, apart from weather conditions, which were fairly rainy until the evening. I'm just as comfortable going on the bus and moving in the direction I'm pointed in. As such I didn't really know where we were visiting today. But my ignorance led to a few pleasant surprises.
The first stop was a cheese museum, specifically for processing parmagiano reggiano cheese. And that place was super informative. I learned that Parmesan cheese used to be made in an upturned bell over a fire, as well as all the processes that went into crafting each block. And the tour finished with a tasting of Parmagiano Reggiano cheese. Which I really relished, not knowing how much cheese I would eat that day.The next stop was a Parmagiano Reggiano cheese factory. And that alone should be indicative of what was to come. Because after taking a tour of the facilities and standing in awe of a giant cheese wall, or rather, giant cheese walls, we sat down for lunch.
And really, at first the lunch seemed like your typical multi-course lunch in Italy when dining with a school group. There was bread, there was water, sparkling and flat, and there was lots of Parmesan cheese (gee imagine that). Meats were brought out on a platter, and we dined on salami, prosciutto, cheese and bread, telling stories to each other.e.During this lunch everyone really loosened up and started having fun. By the end of the ravioli course someone had requested Billy Joel's "Piano Man" to the DJ, and he actually played the song. There was a pretty substantial number of the group joining in on singing that song, yes including me. Also, the chaperon, Cary Rappaport, started singing too. It was possibly the greatest moment of the Dialogue.
But like the passing of the day, all good things must come to an end. Dessert and coffee were distributed, and the meal came to an end. We boarded the bus and set off for our next location, a wine museum, which deserves far more embellishment than I'm going to give it because I'm tired and need to wake up early tomorrow. Today was truly a bonding experience, and emphasizes, in a very real way why wine and cheese are such an important aspect of the culture of Italy.

















